We always have the feeling that every woman is a potential wife, but that isn’t true. There are women and there are wives. Forget about the physical looks, the dressing code, the language and all rest. What counts most is the character. A woman is that one with just the features of a woman and with no scruples. While a wife has not just the features of a woman but she’s a lot more responsibility in her attitude. Below we will see who a wife is and who a mare woman is.
A wife makes sure she is compatible with her husband
Compatibility creates intimacy. A person might be drawn close to another by her looks, but what keeps them together is how compatible they are. This does not just happen but it is created. A wife is someone who always makes sure her interest with her husband’s align. She makes sure they have a common interest, common tastes and hobbies even if at the time they met, they had different tastes. This creates a bond and brings intimacy and no one is bored by the other. But a woman who is not a wife material will like what she has always loved when she was single, go to places and spend the same length of time she use to spend when she was single caring little or not at all whether she is married or not. In that case, the man’s presence does not affects her decisions at all .This creates a difference and distance between the spouses that can lead to separation.
A wife communicates
A wife communicates. She does not talk to her husband but talks with her husband, she understands, listens and pays attention to her man when he talks, and she takes his ideas even when minor issues into consideration. She does not impose nor does she try to intimidate the man in a conversation. A woman who is not worth a wife most often does not communicate she tells the man what she wants to do or she has already done, not seeking for ideas or opinion but informing the man of her intentions. She is always bossy, full of herself and looks at her husband to be a completely different entity.
It is good for a wife to express her feelings whether they be positive or negative. Where they are bad, it is good to spit it out. But a good wife will always express it with humility and respect not harshly or insultingly. She celebrates rather than tolerate her husband, she is kind and loving. She will express her distress just when it is repeatedly done and this will be humble and calm, with the intention to create a more conformable atmosphere rather than intimidate or make him feel belittled just like a woman will do.
All when seen will be called women but among them are wives that are those that will make a house a home.
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